My H said to me " I told you many times I needed more from you.. and you didnt listen.... I wasnt looking for
Getting sex from a stranger I dare say will not fill the void left by someone who you loved and was unconscious they were hurting you.
I never honestly knew how ugly I made my H feel by my LD and lack of initiative for so long...
Ali, SG is right ... you said it well. I heard the same thing from my H, it just happened. That still blows my mind because I thought the same thing that Michelle wrote (you end up in a hotel room, on a night when I was not home, and it just happened?).
I, too was LD. I never realized how much it hurt my H. I realize that now and am appalled at myself. But I've past all that. I decided I didn't want to be that person anymore.
