I just got done watching 20/20 on revenge and forgiveness. They spoke with a survivor of a concentration camp. She said that she chose to foregive the Nazis. When asked why she said that victims are powerless and lead powerless lives and she didn't want that for herself. So then Jonh Stossle aked but why wouldn't you hate them? She just asked, "would that make my life better?" She's right C2 and so are you. Foregiveness is the only way to go to make OUR lives better.