Thanks ladies. That's funny Nik - Michelle is a 50 year old in a 25 year old body. That IS a good thing. I wish I had the wisdom both of you have.
Yes, I am definitely moving on. I feel great, getting a lot of things accomplished and making some actual changes. I read something this past week that really hit me hard. It was "You don't really grow until you change." I always thought I was learning and growing just from reading but now I realize that I actually have to make some physical/emotional/mental changes.
I will not contact her at all. I will wait patiently to see if she ever contacts me. BUT, what would be your estimate of how long a person would need to come to terms with something like this (accepting their sexuality, making peace with God, etc.)? We've been apart more than a year except for a few dates in May 2007 and several dates in October 2007. So, she's had NO CONTACT at all with me since the middle of December. It's already been 7 months since we've seen each other (November). Do you think she might come around anytime now, after another month, another 6 months, another year, what?
