H called back again. I had called him back but got VM after he called me 5 times and I missed him (I was out working in the yard).
He had me tell him all about my appt. He seemed freaked out b/c the pituitary thing is actually caused most often by a tumor in the pituitary gland, which is at the base of the brain. 3 or four times he was totally silent and I asked what was up, he said, "Nothing, I am just listening to you, keep talking."
He also said he wasn't sure if he would come tonight or not as it was already 8 and he still had to clean out the trailer, but he said he had his bag all packed and ready. I probably surprised him b/c I said it was no problem if he just came tomorrow...
Twice I tried to get off the phone and told him he should go get things together with the trailer, both times he said no, I am listening to you....
The past few interactions we have had--last night especially and somewhat tonight--he has been more himself than he has in a long time. At least, he has been acting like MY H again. Don't know if that is the real him or not, but he is coming back more and more and I really don't see the alien very often at all. Not for several weeks. Don't know if it means anything, but I am going with the flow.
Also, I faxed the final offer letter back to the realtor today. If we get our financing and the home passes inspection, it's mine!