I saw your post to me in MC's thread and thought I'd pop over here instead! I am sad to read that your bone head husband will not figure this out until it's too late. I'd go with ROOT and seduce him but that's easy for me to say not sharing the house with him. It's funny but I did seduce my H the nite before he moved into his apt - and then commented to him about what would OW say and then he asked if I was going to use that over his head and I never did...so I guess my talk is cheap. I'd for sure do the exlax brownies thing!!!
I had so many hopes for you, you hung in there as much as I did - I guess I lucked out with a way more impatient OW that just hung herself...she approached me last weekend and we talked for an hour (at my son's flag football). She got some good lectures from me - not what she expected...overall she is sad she lost me as a friend - but who knows if she's telling the truth. At least I crossed this hurdle - I was worried about running into her in our small town...
Overall H and I are doing great but we still talk about OW and the affair quite a bit which gets old but helps him get it all out...
You are destined to meet someone who will appreciate YOU. You are a wonderful person and a loving caring mom and some guy out there will see this!
Take care!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing