Glad you came aboard. I was almost a WAW, but I decided to stay in my M. I has been a very hard year for me, but I won't get off into all of that now.
Have you read Michelle's article here on the board about the WAW? It is very insightful for H's.
It depends on a lot of things why the WAW decides to leave her R with her H and maybe even her kids. The more you can tell us, the more we can try to help. We need to know the age of you and your W and how long you've been together and if any kids, etc.
WAW's don't just wake up one day and decide they are leaving. It is a process that has been building over a period of time and perhaps she has even been blinded to a certain degree. Not every time is OM involved, but in most cases here on the DB board, the LBS discovers that OP is involved in the W's decision to leave. Sometimes, it is MLC that drives her to seek happiness that she feels she was robbed of years before. There are so many different things and yet it seems that WAW's do have something in common. So, I encourage you to post often and tell us your story.
If you do not get very much response here.....go over to the newcomers forum b/c there is more traffic of posters there.
Take care and hope to hear from you again.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
