Also just remembered a convo I had with S15 in the car when I took him back to Hs. Firstly it was only 10.30pm and he had tried to ring H to come and get him. His mobile was switched off and he was answering his home phone. Good job it wasn't an emergency. I did express to S15 how I thought this was poor judgement on Hs behalf. He said something about H trusting him and i just said it's not about the trust it's about your dad knowing you are safe.

He told me that OW has friends coming tomorrow at about 10am. I had offered to pick him up so that he could take back the application form we had filled in together. He said he had a very busy day. Before OWs friends arrive he has to mow the grass, clean the car and clean the bathroom! I raised my eyebrows at this but can't remember what i said. S15 did tell me he was getting paid extra money over and above the pocket money H is giving him. I was secretly a litte annoyed b/c as you know S15 would never do any jobs for me even if I offered to pay him. I didn't say anything as I didn't want to fall out with S15 again. I also had a bit of a laugh to myself b/c a few weeks ago this was a boy who couldn't get out of bed before lunch time at the weekends and now he has to get up at the crack of dawn to do all these jobs before mid morning.

I did ask him if everything was still alright at Hs. He said yes. I said he didn't have to wait until H went on holiday to come home. He said he knew that but he was happy where he was for now. I just said that's ok then (but secretly dying inside).


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15