Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
Remember the stages of awareness!

stage 1 - 'unconscious incompetence'
stage 2 - 'conscious incompetence'
stage 3 - 'conscious competence'
stage 4 - 'unconscious competence'

If he's truly working on it, he's in stage 2. Maybe you'll see actions to back up his words. Maybe he'll slip up a bit.

But your kindness is making an impression on him I think.


Can I give him a kind, immediate kick in the a$$ into stage 3?

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell