L2 -No.. he's not trying to get me to leave. He really can't as I have no place to go but he, in theory, has already been living out most of his weeks at the ow's house... and, he or they together can't afford to stay in our house anyway.
So, today I was the ultimate non-detached, anti-DB'er. I laid into stbx about his immoral character and the situation that he was introducing the children into. I said that if he and ow were so committed to each other then they should get married before moving their families in together. He said he wasn't going to do something stupid like that (i.e -get married right away). Am I wrong here or maybe just old-fashioned??? I then told him not to try to initiate intimacy with me again. If he is so committed to ow then he needs to have only her!!