Jack is right though it is hard not to look for some ups. Keep a PMA. Typically when people are verbally abusive they are looking for a fight....don't get drawn into it....you can't win. If it is a MLC then I fear we may be in the same boat and the seas are rocky at best.
Do the things that make you feel good, at the end of the day it is what is going to matter, regardless of the outcome of the M. This isn't to say this is easy, no matter how many times I tell myself the same stuff it doesn't make it easy. That is why this board is great...I find it is nice to have a bunch of cheerleaders in similar positions hoping for each others success to be very empowering.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
