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Re: I don't know what to think of this Jack_Three_Beans #1456007 05/23/08 07:18 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 4,521 Midwest, US M Maya44 OP Member
OP Maya44 Member M Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 4,521 Midwest, US	So???? What are they? $\:\)$

Re: I don't know what to think of this Maya44 #1456010 05/23/08 07:23 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	read your other 20-something posts and you will find all of the answers you seek......... There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: I don't know what to think of this brandnewday #1456011 05/23/08 07:24 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 4,521 Midwest, US M Maya44 OP Member
OP Maya44 Member M Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 4,521 Midwest, US	About H coming out of his tunnel like this, I don't think so.

Re: I don't know what to think of this Maya44 #1456016 05/23/08 07:26 PM
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OP Maya44 Member M Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 4,521 Midwest, US	I couldn't edit.... I wanted to add that I just wanted to see if anyone agrees this is a good thing or if I'm jumping to too much hope.

Re: I don't know what to think of this Maya44 #1456020 05/23/08 07:31 PM
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,910 North Carolina B Bworl Member
Bworl Member B Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,910 North Carolina	Dar, Isn't the answer, "who knows?" Isn't your focus right now on YOU anyway? Have you moved recently so that you fear your husband will not know where to find you? Have you sent him a "F-off" letter recently so that you fear he might think there's no reason to contact you when his head gets screwed on straight again? Look, you know the answers to all these questions. I think the point our friends here are trying to make is that you could answer this question yourself. Considering the amount of time you've been on this site, and the enormous and valuable input you've received from some very experienced DB'ers, your post should have read like this... "H has been more helpful lately in offering help to bring D back home. I also hear that he's been seeing his Mom some lately for the first time in awhile. And he just INSISTED on volunteering in D's class for the end of year party. I have to say it's nice to have him be helpful instead of hurtful. Maybe he ate his wheaties for breakfast this week, lol. Meanwhile I AM............. You. Not him. He's on vacation. He'll let you know when he's back. I think he left a message for you. It said, "I'll let you know when I'm back." Blessings, Bill "Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."

Re: I don't know what to think of this Maya44 #1456022 05/23/08 07:33 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Let me get out my crystal ball.... Hmmmm..... Please enter your credit card number and expiration date and I will be more then happy to tell you about your future. Dar.... None of us know the future. None of us know what he is thinking. There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: I don't know what to think of this brandnewday #1456027 05/23/08 07:41 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Quote: Please enter your credit card number and expiration date and I will be more then happy to tell you about your future. BND, I'd be careful, that almost seems like an advertisement... : ) Please enjoy your weekend Dar. Don't worry about crap you cannot control, don't waste time wondering what someone is thinking. Don't get your hopes up, don't get your hopes down either. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: I don't know what to think of this brandnewday #1456030 05/23/08 07:42 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman Member
Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	WOW crystal ball lady !!! What I wouldn't have given - when I thought the answers were actually out there...hahaha ! We learn Dar, in time we learn ! Que sera, sera, whatever will be, will be....trust God's wonderful plan. Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: I don't know what to think of this Cinderellaman #1456043 05/23/08 07:47 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Oh Jack... Don't be so blase...... We both know what the future holds. We will get strong again after MLC. We will become the people we were meant to be. And... IF our Spouses want to come along for the ride, they are welcome. But life still goes on with or without them. There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: I don't know what to think of this brandnewday #1456056 05/23/08 07:55 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 4,521 Midwest, US M Maya44 OP Member
OP Maya44 Member M Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 4,521 Midwest, US	Thanks guys! I do appreciate it. You've lifted me once again. I am going to have a wonderfully awesome weekend. D and I are going to my family's summer home in WI to be with family. I'm even bringing her bathing suit in case she dares go to the beach (for our first 80 degree day here)! $\:\)$ I for one will stay on the sand collecting shells for her while she freezed her little caboose off. I'm leaving work in less than an hour to go do this ADHD consult with D's doctor. Wish me luck! $\:\)$

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