So you have mentioned women (or a woman) friend.... do not talk about this anymore. But look hot and be VERY HAPPY. New clothes mister!!!!
And if she does ask (which she may if you are doing a good job being happy in front of her) make sure you mention you are meeting many great women out there and have a lot of nice female friends you talk with, but you don't plan to rush into anything, "no rebound relationships." Also say you would never seriously date anyone while you are still legally married because it wouldn't be fair to the other person. You would want to be completely free from baggage. Right now you are focusing on you and being a healthy fabulous guy for your next marriage.
Another thing to throw out there, is how surprising it is that there are sooo many attractive single women out there..... hey, life is good!
Keep in mind, you cannot say this in a way where it's obvious you are trying to make her jealous. She will see right through it. You have to wish her well. You have to wish her happiness with OM. I know it sounds crazy, but if she feels you are truly letting go of her (and truthfully moving on and meeting fabulous OW) then she has to start looking at what she's gaining by leaving rather than focusing on trying to "get away" from what she had. I hope that makes sense....
Think great and you become great. Think positive and you become positive... it really works!!!
Please keep in mind... all of this takes time. It doesn't happen overnight.
One more thing DO NOT FIGHT WITH HER!!!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
