Start of the long and bumpy road........

[TwinDad]

Jen,

I have actually been pretty decent about not calling her....I have been letting her initiate the contact. I admit I look forward to it. The hard part is playing a little hard to get per se. I do wish a read this book six months ago if not 10 years ago (along with a few others). I do agree with you she needs to miss me. In the time I have been over there I got a kick out how everything was over there. There was a bunch of laundry that needed to be done, there was nothing in the pantry to feed the kid. I even got a little kick listening to my W and niece talk about going grocery shopping and my W talk about not getting good sleep because she was being dsiturbed in the middle of the night by the kids. These were all things I took care of when we were living together.

I continue to be her friend and tell her she is doing fine but I can tell she is starting to appreciate everything I did around the house that she might have taken for granted. I doubt this will be what makes her come around, but maybe it will helpopen up her eyes a little bit