Thank you all for responding!! I know what you mean. My H had a good head on his shoulders at one time. I guess the MLC hit him hard. You are all right & I think it is just a matter of time before OW will be going after some other sucker!

I'm pretty laid back & I don't get into doing exciting things & that is what he wanted & I guess she is more exciting than I am but you know he knew how I was when we got married. MLC!!!!

I do need time to work things out in my head. I'm not sure right now I would take him back with open arms, I guess it would depend on how he came back & things he said & did. It would be hard but I guess I would like the opportunity. I miss him so bad. Our oldest dog has been sick & I took her to a holistic vet, she is better & I so wanted to call him & let him know. But I didn't!!!

I sent him his half of the income tax refund, I put a little note in there & said "Hope you are doing well" that is all I said. He may be mad b/c I sent it Restricted Delivery, that means only he can sign for it & will have to show ID, it cost me more but you know I don't trust OW. I don't imagine he has gotten it yet.

Thank you all again for your support!!!

(((HUGS)))