i told my boys that it isn't fair but that sometimes lie isn't fair

then I had them make lists of allthe things we do together that is special because of our little family

we had a blast making the list

I told them that it is ok to be sad because it is a sad thing

they understand all that

they just want us to still be there
to be sure of us

you did a great job

and

damn you chick!!!

I really need some shots today
and
a bar to dance on

woot woot