I also feel that if he was truly done he would be the one seeking divorce. I would personally go semi dark act as if he is gone, If he tries to argue with you remove yourself from his path of destruction. DO things for YOU and DD'S
I think LWB has been doing this for quite awhile. It doesn't work for everyone...it didn't work for me either. LWB's H doesn't want to follow through with the D but he doesn't want to fix the marriage....my H was the same way. I think there comes a point when you have to say enough is enough....I did my best...and that's all I can do. My guess is that he will continue to live like this as long as LWB will let him. I think it has been mentioned before that filing could be a last-last resort. That might shock her H back into reality.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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