Yes you're right because the end result was rewarding (H didn't leave like he had planned). The DBing part was that I left the apartment when I wasn't impressed and vented to a friend instead of to H. I think he was surprised that I didn't jump at him when I came home.
I've noticed he's changed a bit towards me. He's sweeter and more open.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
