He's "done". Period.

[shatteredheart31]

I agree that the letter is a bad idea. What you CAN do if you're really feeling the urge to write it is to go ahead and write the letter but don't give it to him...either put it away somewhere safe where he won't find it, tear it up and throw it away, buy a journal and write it in there, etc. Sometimes for me, just writing things down will help me get it out but not bring it up to H. I bought a journal to write things like this into. When I feel like I want to talk to H about something that I know I shouldn't I either write it in my journal or send an email to a trusted friend and talk to them about it. It actually helps. I'm getting it out but I'm not to H.