So I said "Then there will be no sex". Looking back that was kind of controlling, but its the truth. H would laugh in my face if I offered up MC or Retro. He is so done with me. [quote]
LWB,
I don't think that this is controlling I think it is a boundry that needed to be set for YOU. If it is indeed just sex to him then why should you be his whore.
I also feel that if he was truly done he would be the one seeking divorce. I would personally go semi dark act as if he is gone, If he tries to argue with you remove yourself from his path of destruction. DO things for YOU and DD'S
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez