for better,for worse,for (what)ever

[Evie]

Hey seek, fancy a trip to Rome? Sunday 10th August to Friday 15th? I've just booked a ticket and am meeting up with D1 and her friend, but if you fancy it, why not. We could visit the treveli fountain etc....Take DB to Rome...

I know what you are saying, you echo my own thoughts as per usual!!!

I stopped reading the books and the board for a while when i found out about the A. I just felt that nothing i could do would bring him back.

I guess this journey is about patience and learning to be the best we can. I know its so hard to do when our H's haven't given us reasons for leaving and we don't know what to improve. Self analyse is so hard, well i think so, you seem to do really well with it seek and i think you have made massive improvements. I don't think you or your sit are ready for you to give up just yet imho.

Look at it this way, any choices you make now are for you and because you want to, you are not been forced to sell your house, you seem to be ok financially your h is there should you need repairs done on your house. What i'm saying is you have postives in your sit, i know you don't know where you stand with H and that is extremely frustrating.

I'm not much help, but I am listening and just to let you know your not on your own, i feel the same way too.

(((Seek)))

have work to do now, so must go

xxxxx

As you say, just sit still for a while, make some plans for the summer, meet me in Rome!!!!