No, I haven't read that book, but it's a good suggestion. Whenever I'm not at the library or bookstore I think about it, but forget once I'm pursuing the shelves. The Marley book I'm not sure about, but should probably check it out. One of my goals is to spend less time reading and farting around on the computer and more time reading things on paper. I used to read a TON, but over the past three years spent more time on the computer. Definitely more once my H started pulling away. It was kind of a self-fulling pattern.
H wouldn't really talk to me, I'd get on the computer and talk via forums like this with people who actually wanted to hear what I had to say and share back. H felt like I ignored him. The cycle would feed itself.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09