Thank you Yoyo. I have said that I would be willing to be a lead couple and tell our story, but my husband is very shy. He won't get out in public and talk about his emotions or admit his flaws. Plus there is a tremendous amount of work writing your story down and preparing it for the program. You can't just wing it. He says his job is too demanding for him to take the time to do that. I respect his right to say no.

On the other hand, there is another couple who we met there and used to carpool to the post sessions with. The wife and I are both willing and the husbands are unwilling. So we keep saying that the two 2 wives will prepare a talk on intimacy in the bedroom. This is a standing joke. But you know, I have some strong opinions there. If Retrouvaille were open to it, we really would do it.