Cagz is really moving ahead Wierd...

[cagzmom]

Betsey HI HI HI!! Been thinking of you much. Hope you are ok and that your can still talk to us "lowly folk"

trusting oh how i wish fired = bottom oh how i wish. he seems to um "avoid the bottom" so often ...

Synopsis.
4 1/2 years ago h was fired (out of the blue or so I thought)
3 1/2 years ago h was fired (they had just cause he had been a bad bad boy) that is what brought us here. (AFTER MANY MANY we dont want to moves...)
1 year ago h was fired (that stated his job was too stressful for him)
this year h is fired again --- this time his blame is on the economy.

He had thought the job was at risk....but then he still did what he does best...IGNOREs those above him and does his own thing. I am pretty sure he left early yesterday (And after not working this Saturday welllllllll) NOT a smart move. (yesterday was bimbos bday).

Evidentally he hadn't cut it and they cut him. He is in the automotive business and when you are done you are done - no severence..none of that. YOUR OUT.

Last year when he got fired I found out through the grape vine - didn't have a full time job and was very very dependent on his income. This year is a little different.

All his text said was "lost my job today....dont know how much i will be able to give you next month it won't be much....sorry".

My son is working with me this summer and was sitting there when i got the text...he said "well hey at least we dont have to move this time..." EVEN d11 when I told her tonight..that was hte FIRST question out of her mouth -"do we have to mvoe??"

I did call him after I got the text --
ME- "you ok"
STBX- no but i dont have time to mope (BS!!)
ME- wait is bimbo there?
STBX - she just left to do some errands
ME- so sweet
STBx-CAGZMOM---
ME- I forgot u have her- u guys will have to get through it -thank u for letting me know talk to u later
STBX- bye

So wierd- but that is what i have to do --- he is nothing to me now....so wierd. I am not the wife to support him, I am not even the friend. She is filling those rolls.

I am a little scared financially as i dont make alot of money- so i dont knwo what that is going to look like. I talked to the kids and they get it....they are so wonderful!! =)

Ok so now .....oh my gosh H lost his job. AGAIN - UGH!
(just so ya'll know his pattern was to make some sort of change about every 2 1/2 years SERIOUSLLY!! When he left me he had a GReAT job-- so i was who disposed of...now I wonder what will happen.)

THe wierd me yes wishes he would call and tell me his woes.
The wierd me wishes that I could be by him and walk through this with him.

It is sad and done...so wierd.