I need to figure out what I what kind of life I want when all my children leave.
This is my GF's train of thought, too. My beef with it is, what about now? Does that mean no living until several years from now? I know that life is busy with kids, work, etc..., but what about all the learning about yourself for your future that you could be accomplishing in those years?
Hi FL,
Right now I'm living the life I want at this moment.But life is ever changing and there will come a time when I won't have the kids here all the time.So what will I do with that free time.
Travel? Maybe.Most likely.I love the idea of traveling.I even like to travel alone.
Maybe finally turn to pro pool.Sounds nice.As you may have figured out I'm a really good pool player and I really love the game.
I live a wonderful life right now.Well right now I have a bit of drama.And I thrive on drama.
Hi everyone.
A lot has happened in the last few days.I was going to post it before but I saw a bit of drama on the board and just waited til it ended.I wanted to post it when everyone was more focused on calm.
My D21 moved back in this week.She is pregnant and has left her husband.He was threatening her and that was just not good for her.
Now he is sending her text messages saying over and over abortion abortion.He just keeps texting her this same thing over and over.And everyonce and a while he will text her saying I hope you don't die in a firey car crash when your driving to your boyfriend.She doesn't have a boyfriend.He husband is very jealous.I'm a bit scared for her.I have a few friends lined up to send her to that he can't find her.
She has brought 3 kittens and a dog with her.I love kittens.However I am having an allergic reaction to them and can hardly breath out of my nose and I'm sneezing a lot.Not fun! But I don't want her to go back to him so I'm not complaining.She is sleeping on the couch and my son has taken to the floor.
I'm tired.She doesn't have a job.And nothing lined up.Her H says he is going to take the baby away from her.He has money.I'm not really worried about that.I'm sure his behavior will make that a nonissue.
One of the kittys got into some pink paint and he is covered in it.We have tried everything to get him clean.Nothing worked.That has to wear off.Poor thing.
I'm tired and don't really have much time.I have to work in the morning and should go to bed.But I know I won't be able to sleep.
I sure am glad I can come to this board and have a sounding board.I need ideas as to what to do for D21.I know just being there for her is the most important.But with my finances the way they are I'm in no postion to help her with money.
I hate this.But what else can I do.
Later Friends Briget
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