Ali made me smile too, I think it was how she said "do naughties"
Good that you got to go home today. You need a break. I also think you took the IM convo pretty well...I think I was madder than you when I read it. Maybe it is just sinking in.
I was feeling the same way you were not too long ago. Do you have a long weekend this weekend? Maybe you can do something to take your mind off H.
P.S.....I think your thread is longer than mine was!!!