Thank you for your suggestions...I have been working on spiritual basics with a little more effort lately. Whenever I feel like I'm searching for answers, that seems to be the underlying impression I receive, to focus myself on being in-tune. I appreciate your affirmation.
I know you're in a wierd spot right now. I'm sure your W is surprised at your reaction (or lack thereof). I hope it does make it harder for her.
The actions of others often bring suffering to us, but I am positive that blessings will come in added strength and even more direct ways when the time is right. And you're right. In the long run it will hurt her the most.