I know you've been DBing all along, but I also know you are tired of the situation and probably would like to tell him off too... I'm just saying to try and stay emotionally detached despite the insane and hurtful things he's doing. That HAS to be difficult because he's living there with you and pushing it in your face.
So.... hey, for that dinner party, I think I have a recipe for some ex-lax brownies here somewhere....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
