Skip class! Eat cheese! Listen to your body, you have been working like a dog and you're tired, and maybe that IM message between your H and your friend finally caught up with you? (I thought you took it well at the time).
All I can say is, your sitch is the one that gives me hope, as he was barely even speaking to you a while ago, then you met in that cafe, then he was IMing, then you did naughties, then he pulled back and then he dumps OW and you do naughties again.. and well, he is definetly more the conventional.. peep out the cave then turn around and go back in. I had a week where my BF suddenly didnt contact me and I cried for 2 days and thouht this is how its going to be, then a few weeks later, I spend all weekend with him... so, things CAN change. I wouldnt give up hope and I wouldnt serve any ultimatums.
In fact, I would do nothing. Mercury is now going backwwards for 3 weeks, so lie low! Let him get sick of her skyping (?) him all the time and grow bored of her. Just leave him to wallow in his own mess and I bet he gets in touch with you....
Sorry you are feeling stressed out and tired. You have had alot of emotions to deal with this week...Give yourself permission to laze around!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread