Originally Posted By: dry_heat
Do you think he would see it that way? Cause if he hadn't married you, he wouln't have those responsibilities. So, it might make him more resentful, if that's possible.


OMG, PLEEEEEEEASE tell me that's NOT possible! I really don't think I could take anymore hatred coming from this man!

But you're right, he probably wouldn't see it that way. He would probably say, "Well get a job so you can help pay for it."

Yeah ok. Let me work more just to pay for a sitter for our children. That makes sense. Let's both work so much that neither one of us are around for them.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell