In all seriousness, I say forward it to him. Along with something about how you are thinking you might need to start working full-time, and if you do, this is what it will cost to care for the kids. Maybe ask his opinion on it?
That way it comes off less "in-his-face" but still makes the point?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2