Stand to your full height, shoulders back, chest out, breathe in the crisp air deeply, and stride out into the light!
I think it was Bagheera that suggested you could go ahead with moving down to the basement. Do not do so. Things will be getting a lot more interesting in the bedroom in the next few weeks. Stay put. Start letting yourself feel sexual energy and emotions of all kinds percolate through you. Smile. They are a gift that tell you that you are very much alive. Enjoy that bubbling within you, even if it's not leading to sex.
Keep us posted.
S&A
"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.
Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.