You're welcome! Glad to help if only a tiny bit, you have helped me. These boards are amazing. A friend of mine at college just got the ILYBIDLYA and was distraught.. I told him to be her friend and be patient and hey, theres this website... etc etc!

Ali x

in terms of responding to her...be brave, what the hell, as long as it comes from a place of love and you are humble, I dont see what harm it could do. Better than sinking to her level and being a meany. My BF has NEVER given me an opening like she gave to you in that text.. if he had, I'd have been all ears...


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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