You're welcome! Glad to help if only a tiny bit, you have helped me. These boards are amazing. A friend of mine at college just got the ILYBIDLYA and was distraught.. I told him to be her friend and be patient and hey, theres this website... etc etc!
Ali x
in terms of responding to her...be brave, what the hell, as long as it comes from a place of love and you are humble, I dont see what harm it could do. Better than sinking to her level and being a meany. My BF has NEVER given me an opening like she gave to you in that text.. if he had, I'd have been all ears...
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I really wish I had your words at the time I got the question. I am so gun-shy w/ W right now that I don't know how to respond, so I usually don't.
She has been distant again since the big conversations we had about D's lice, but again, if you don't expect too much, you can't be too disappointed.
Anyway, I'm done w/ school and the room here is cleaned and packed for the summer. I'll be coming back periodically to work on my curriculum, but for now, I'm off.
I pick up my D in less than an hour and we'll leave for Lake Tahoe, so I'll not be able to check too much on everyone's sitches and thus will be miles and miles behind when I return.
I'll try to do as much as I can now while I'm waiting to hear back from W, but I'll most likely need to play catch-up next week.
Hey, Everyone! We had a GREAT time in Tahoe, and it did snow a little bit, but it didn't stick. Once I update things, I'm planning on doing my long, long road of catch up w/ all of your situations out there.
Anyway, since this thread is getting longer and longer, I've decided to update things on a new thread.
