You could ask him if he really believes he has given this a fair shot if he's still involved with someone else. Puppy could probably come up with a much better, pointed truth dart...
Thanks for sharing the story of how the two of you got together. Sounds like a rocky road (reminds me of my 9+ year relationship with my ex boyfriend, except we made a different choice with the pregnancy and I was 18 at the time - sorry if that angers anyone, I'm not proud, but it's my reality).
I think it's pretty telling when your MIL/SIL are horrified by the way their own son/brother treats his wife.
GF, you deserve to be CHERISHED.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence