Dealing with Residue

[KarenMarieS]

Hi guys
Again thankyou for all this, Its really given me a lot to think about!
I knew that someone would relate!lol It seems we all go thru very similar scenerios and feelings.

Fig, yes you are right, if she was there for my S, I appreciate that, she may of been according to S, shes very nice , I'm sure she is.
She wasnt the OW as far as I know- she is prolly struggling w/ a few things w/ my ex now too - poor thing lol

Bethie I totally love what you said that he may now look and see that he did give up a nice family, a family who comes together whenever there is something important going on in anyones life-
and they loved him dearly at one time and he has given that up, she may have a nice family too but after all, my family had known ex since he was 19! His family is all over the country and not really as close knit , he may of seen that he gave that up too.

I have to tell ya tho Naej, I am thinking the idea of broken fingers did cross my mind ,,if i had time to think about it! LOL

Thank you guys!
I have come to the conclusion it dosnt really matter why she was there, I do know my S knows whats what. I had my wonderful B by my side, and he WAS there for the right reason! and thats whats important!

Once again, great advice and support