Kimmie, It will get better when you let it get better by start going out and enjoying life. I was on here trying to fight for my sanity when I was first separated and now realize how much better my life is. I am enjoying life that I didn't have when I was with him, I am in control of things. It is all about me now and my happiness.
Me and the x's divorce came through on December 20 2007 and he already has plans to marry the OW that he started cheating on me with. Heck if I see her, I would either give her my condolences or tell her good luck. This just goes to really show me that he knows nothing about true marriage and will jump in and out of it as he pleases but the main thing now is that I am so happy and better than the last 10 years of our marriage.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
