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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
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Sex is nothing...


...when you are having some


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are you putting in the right number of exemptions? I put the wrong number and it told me that and then I finally put the right one and it told me the date it was deposited.


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it should be 2 right? for M filing jointly?


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Never say never. That is the mantra I keep running through my head. It is always darkest before the dawn. I know, a ton of cliches. But in them is some truth. Sometimes you want what you can't have, and he may have wanted her because she was so far away. Once he gets what he wants, he will more than likely see that the grass is not always greener. Whatever you decide to do you have to be 100% okay with. I think you are doing a great job, really thinking through the situation before making any moves.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Yeah, I would think so...but I don't think it matters if you guess different numbers.


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I second what the others have said. Really give some thought to what you want and what you are willing/not willing to do to get it. I really think that once she gets back here there may be a brief "honeymoon" period but ultimately sooner rather than later they will be done. You have done so well and been so smart, don't let a bad day or couple of days make you lose your focus.

Stay busy, stay strong and get some clarity on what Michelle's goals are and what it will take to reach them.

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I tried 1, 2, and 3. Got the same response with all of them. I mailed the amended federal return on like April 2nd. So I'm really surprised they haven't processed it yet. I can't find out anything more til I get home from class tonight. So I guess I just gotta let that go.

I don't want to get a D. But I can't live like this either. And I feel like he's slid back 8 months. We went from talking semi-regularly on IM, to him actually picking up the couple times I called his phone, to dating, and then rapidly slid backwards to him getting back with OW, avoiding my phone calls, and refusing to talk to me - even about important financial stuff. He wiped out every positive of the last 4 months in a week and a half flat.


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Originally Posted By: Kalni
Originally Posted By: dry_heat
Originally Posted By: Kalni
Sex is nothing...


...when you are having some
It's kinda like air...you only really miss it when you can't have it.


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I am so tired. I don't want to go to class tonight. Hell, I want to leave work and go home. I just want to pull the covers over my head and pretend the world doesn't exist!


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((((Michelle))))

Sorry you're feeling bad today. Just stopping by to say hello and say I'm thinking of you,

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