Never say never. That is the mantra I keep running through my head. It is always darkest before the dawn. I know, a ton of cliches. But in them is some truth. Sometimes you want what you can't have, and he may have wanted her because she was so far away. Once he gets what he wants, he will more than likely see that the grass is not always greener. Whatever you decide to do you have to be 100% okay with. I think you are doing a great job, really thinking through the situation before making any moves.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..