You got someone to blame / You say ...

[klm]

A wise person once told me to wait a few days to make sure I still felt the same way ....hmmm I think her name was Michelle....she also told me I should find a way to show H that I DO have a breaking point before I actually get there.

Maybe that is the way you should think of it...showing him you have a breaking point rather than giving an ultimatum.

[Virtually_Handsome]

Sex is nothing

[MichelleLT]

I am gonna try and get some info on my own from the IRS. That will dictate whether or not I contact him.

If he got the refund weeks ago, you can bet I will be calling him.

If he hasn't, then obviously there's no need to bug him about it.

[MichelleLT]

That's precisely what I'm trying to get at!

But I want to do it w/o completely backing myself into a corner.

[klm]

ooohh you can go to irs.gov and click where's my refund.

[MichelleLT]

That's what I'm trying to do. But w/o them in front of me, I can't do it. I know everything except the exact $ amount. I'll have to wait until after class tonight.

State, not sure. I might have to call. At any rate, I'm gonna check on both and see.

[klm]

you can also find out about the stimulus check there...it tells you if it was deposited and the date or if it was mailed.

[MichelleLT]

good to know. thanks kris

[klm]

you can check the stimulus payment with just a SSN

[MichelleLT]

it tells me that they have no specific info for mine grrrrrrr