Hey Christarn,

A belated thank you for your comments to me ("WAW leaving me because of past depression..."). I am such a dork with these BB strings, so I didn't see your comment until last night. Derrr.

Seeing the above comment about your H feeling ignored makes me wonder what you should do. It hard to do dark and to know if it is the right thing, at least for me. At what point should we initiate contact, especially if the visits are enjoyable to both people? Hmmm. I have discussed this with Vernetta. When you have a couple good visits, I tend to want to keep the good mojo going...not smother her, but maybe invite her to coffee in a week. I was told to refrain, and to wait for HER to call. Damn, it's hard.

BTW, I am regularly going to rejoiceministries.com. I printed out the Standers' Affirmation. Right on! Thanks for that!


Me: 46 Second Marriage
WAW: 38 First Marriage
Separated: Dec. 2007
W Filed for D: Feb. 2008
For more hope, click: http://rejoiceministries.org/