I understand your frustration, but he isn't the one that has the problem with it....you do.
Its just if you had this talk you really would have to be prepared for him to say that and also for him to say that if you have a problem then YOU do something about it.
Trust me, I know where you are at right now. Filing for D is the last thing I would have wanted to do. I don't want it so why should I have to be the one to file??? I was at my breaking point when I had that talk with H, I was fully prepared to file the next day. I didn't want to but I was prepared.
As Ali said, tread carefully. I don't know if either one of you are ready for that talk. ....Maybe after OW has been back for a little bit?
