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Moonfluff got into something one time and the mess that made has become legendary

we had to move the litterbox outside for a day

even after cleaning it!!!


and the noises!!!


and she is so small she still fits in my bra
she is a micro-kitty

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Oh sweeet! I mean the small part of that post. I missing my kitty!! \:\(

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Guess we can no longer edit at all??? I wanted to change my missing to miss.

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ok so I just recieved an email from a girl I knew who works where I got layed off last wee. he, I and another girl had gone to lunch a few times, took tea breaks. She bascially said she and the other girl miss me, sorry for the way it owrked out and that they want to stay in touch and go to lunch soon. They are really nice people, and it would be nice to keep them as friends but I am afraid I will say something negative about the job and the way things were handled.


found out about affair 8/06
H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
X re marries OW 5/08
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just smile nicely and make them buy you lunch

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I agree with fig!

Just go and enjoy. Try not to worry about what you may say. Or if they turn the convo that way turn it to something else and more fun!

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Shoe, The odds are that they agree things were handled badly. Don't let bad feelings about the job, and the small number of people who were probably involved in you leaving, interfere with the good wishes of people who value and miss you.

And while you are at lunch, tell them all to create LinkedIn accounts to help you network, and to keep their ears open for possible jobs! \:\)


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Good morning everyone. jusy a quick bit of journaling before I am off to the gym. Had a strang dream last night. Dreamt that me, X and OW were at the same party and I was joking around with her about the X. Then, later the X was calling me trying to remminice(sp?) about us. NOw these 2 things would never happen in a zillion years. Just found it strange since all other dreams have me telling her what a low life scank she is. \:\/
Have a great Friday everyone


found out about affair 8/06
H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
X re marries OW 5/08
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Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow".
-- Mary Anne Radmacher


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Seems to me that someone's subconscious is telling her to look at positives and let the negatives be to themselves.


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Not much going on here. Very glad I did not go camping last weekend as it rained Saturday through Monday. We did go up for the day saturday to hang out with some people. Got to experiance my first and only 4 wheel drive run. FOr some reason, people put tons of money in their new jeeps and trucks and than go off roading and rock climbing Got some pics of trucks almost standing straight up on 2 tires as they went over rocks. seems like where ever I go the X is brought up. My friend asked if I had heard from him, did I hear he got married, did I hear he got a new puppy. No, yes, no were my responses and changed the subject. Tired of people bringing him up. I am sure people dont to it to him about me.
Finding that I am getting very depressed. No luck on the job hunt at all. here I am 43, divorced and been layed of twice within a 8 month span. I am feeling like a complete looser. I just can't pull myself out of the funk. I am forcing myself to go tho the gym but dont feel any better. Hope everyone is having a nice thursday


found out about affair 8/06
H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
X re marries OW 5/08
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Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow".
-- Mary Anne Radmacher


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