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[AliSuddenly]

Michelle, I'm with Jeff, tread carefully, unless yuo really have had enough.. when you say I'm not going to sit around and be your loving, faithful wife forever while you run around drinking and having a bunch of affairs...he hasnt asked you to do that.. its been your choice to wait lovingly and faithfully, so its not like you can threaten him with not doing it anymore? Although, it would be interesting to see how he reacted if you did go get yourself another guy. I bet he would go nuts !

I still think you should not contact him AT ALL and let him sit with his recent decision to get back in touch with the annoying hassley one, and let him realise that he's missing you?

Ali xxx