Do not text with him about anything except the children. They aere your focus. You need to build your center around the family and begin to mvoe forwad. Your H will then have to choose to lead, follow, or get out of the way. Nevrtheless, as the LBS with the kids, we have to choose to be better for them. Once they are in bed, we are then allowed to be as vulnerable as we need to be.
My mom tells me all the time that it is okay ot have a pity party--the important thing to learn is when to turn the lights off and party's over. Consider this last call, before the waitresses come around to collect the glasses.
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
