He's "done". Period.

[HOPEFULinCALI]

Just wanted to stop by and offer support. I felt the same way you did and from time to time I still get frustrated. I echo KLM's post.

DBing is against our nature. It is very difficult in the beginning. It is a very confusing time and you just want to fix it now. The sooner you can start DBing, accepting that you have no control over him, and detaching the better. When I first started I backslid a lot, but the less I backslid the more progress I saw in my M. Try you hardest not to because it takes 1 ops to undo 100 that a boy's, but if you do don't be discouraged just get right back into it.

One of the most helpful things for me has been to let go of expectations and GAL.

Good luck