I don't want to write my life story so I will try and sum it up a bit. When my husband and I first married (2 1/2 yrs ago) it was wonderful, he was attentive and affectionate, very caring. Over time his job took over and he started to become a different person. I was the one who began to take out the garbage, take care of the kids, clean etc... He stopped caring about a lot of things. After about a year of this he told me he no longer loved me and wanted to separate. We lived together for awhile after the anouncement and he became mean and condesending. While we were in the house as "friends" we did have some good times. We would hang out and watch tv, still do family stuff and dinner once in awhile, but eventually it got to be too much. The hurt was too painful so I decided to leave. I moved out on a friday (about a month ago) and basicly haven't spoken since. He hasn't called me, doesn't know where I will, hasn't asked if I am okay. Can anyone help here. Whats going on in his head and how can he be so cold?