Thanks, you guys! Love the support and affirmation.
I was up until 11 thinking about the house, and up at 4 am thinking about it. I was thinking about a few things that wouldn't work if it were "ours"--no room for the pool table H bought in Pasadena, not enough room for all of H's tools, etc.
But then I thought, "I am buying this house for ME. If I like it, that is what matters. If he decides to come along he can deal with it for a few years until we build on his family's farm."
That is when I KNEW I was going to buy this house. And I am fine with it being MY house. In fact, it sounds terrible, but if H comes back I hope he waits until I am done moving everything in where I want it!!
Oh yeah, John, that is what he said to his mother. But b/c he is an immature preschooler, he may still file in the midst of a tantrum
