Start of the long and bumpy road........

[TwinDad]

Ok, I think I am needing some help on some small goals to help me see some positive change, something I can see. Here are some thoughts I have for goals:

1) Go to one of our childrens events/classes together in the same car as opposed to meeting there
2) Have her ask me how I am doing or how my day was (I never heard this much through 11 years, and very seldom now)
3) Have her give me a compliment on something, anything
4) Have her initiate a text or call that has nothing to do with the kids or logisitics (she actually did this a little bit when I was on the trip with the kids)
5) Have her come over to my place to see the kids and stay a little after they go to bed or take a nap

I guess I would like to have some of these within the next two weeks

A little longer term would be

1) To go out on a date together (she had mentioned prior to separating that she wanted to take things slow again and date each other a little bit)
2) To recieve a thoughtful gift for Fathers Day
3) To have her hug me

Let me know what you think....are they good goals, did you have any others that you used in the early days of separation?