Okay, so...I am glad that you have decided to dark on your H. Frankly, I wanna drop kick his ass into next week. He plays all these stupid junior high games...and thinks he is soooo cool for doing it, I bet.

I left the boards because I needed a break and I was very busy. I have spent time meditating and praying...it has been great! I can see things so much clearer now. In making the choice to get away from your H's drama...you let go. I let go to a certain extent of LL and his drama and it was wonderful...I am learning and growing...

One day this will be over for us, sweets. I promise.

Hugs,
Vali


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller