If you guys do mediation for a D, you can get anything he'll agree to sign for. So, maybe a realistic conversation about what needs to happen if/when you file for D might get him thinking.
Plus the courts will take your education/work history into account.
Sucks that you're not a long-term M. I'm not either, but since I don't have a break in work history, it's not as big a deal for me. (((cw))) Everything will work out in the end. Things always do. They don't always work out according to plan, but we always make the best of the situations life hands us.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
